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Really, it’s an advantage: instead of a relationship dragging on and on for years (despite it lacking the “it” factor for one or both of you), it Sure, a relationship ending is sad…
I fully understand this and I have personally experienced the heartbreak of a long distance relationship ending, so please don’t mistake me for being overly positive because I don’t understand the pain and worries of a LDR.
In a LDR, when a relationship starts to head downward, it usually won’t come back unless your intervention is quick, powerful, and on-target.
QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life? If you want your long distance relationship to work, you’re going to need to shift your focus outward.
My point in all of this is that there’s an empowering way to look at your long distance relationship, one that will set you up to win.
I’m going to give you the best possible answer on how to make a long distance relationship work, I just need to make sure you’re looking at things in a way that will help you win (and avoid the common pitfalls).
You can’t afford this in a long distance relationship.
You fear that someone else will come along and take the person you love away from you.I approach long distance relationship questions like I’m doing emergency first aid – I need stop all of the damaging behaviors immediately and set you on the winning course immediately. In a regular relationship, you have room for error…sure you might have some habits that push him away or turn him off, but there’s plenty of things you do when you’re together that make up for it.and the quality of your interactions is determined by your mood. If you really care about your relationship, then you need to stop “caring” about your relationship.When you stop stressing out and obsessing about your own fears, worries, and nightmare-scenarios, something great happens: you give the relationship room to breathe.
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Whether you’re in a LDR or not, relationships fall apart when your focus stops being on the person you’re with and starts shifting to you. There are many times where I’ll say to a woman, “You need to start putting energy into your man and your relationship and stop thinking about yourself.” She’ll look at me like I’m crazy, then retort, “ALL I do is focus on my relationship and him. ”.” That’s a big thing to consider – worrying about your relationship is wasted energy.